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Saturday, 3 October 2026

If you want to buy machine screws or widgets that are exactly the same to five decimal points, you’ll pay a premium for that. In exchange, you’ll get parts that are precisely as expected, making assembly more reliable.

Mechanization’s productivity and our fear of fear have driven us to do this with just about everything. Bananas, fast food and student performance are all pushed toward consistency, often at the expense of the possibility of extraordinary performance.

We do this to humans at our own peril.

Do we really want the artist to produce a carbon copy each time? For every Dead show to be the same? For customer service to be measured with a stopwatch, not our hearts?

Uniformity pays when the best definition of “excellent” is that it “meets spec.” This includes day-to-day freelance work, business hotel rooms and the way our phones work.

For everything else, perhaps we ought to pay a bit more for awe, insight and surprise.

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Friday, 2 October 2026

Seth's Blog : Modern vanity

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Modern vanity

“Vanity” has the same root as “in vain.” Emptiness.

Staring at the mirror, focusing on our appearance. It’s an empty pursuit of a not-very-worthwhile goal.

But modern vanity is amplified. Culture hooked the toxic emotion of shame to vanity. Now, instead of a chance to be seen and admired, vanity is mostly about avoiding the risk of being shamed for not being enough, not successful enough, or, worse, of failing.

This new version of vanity isn’t about being the prettiest, it’s avoiding being not-pretty.

If we erect the deal-killer of shame around not-pretty, then society can extend that shame into all sorts of not. Not-competent. Not-respected. Not-fit. They call social media numbers “vanity metrics” for a reason.

It’s selfish. Not the selfish of hoarding resources, but the defensive decision to hold things back. To sabotage our process and our practice so we’re not exposed.

And it scales:

Aspiration has a ceiling. You can become pretty enough, accomplished enough, respected enough — and stop. There’s a destination.

Avoidance has no floor. The threat of not-pretty (or not-competent, not-respected or any other imagined failure) is always right behind you. You can never outrun it permanently. Every achievement resets the clock. It can feel like a useful fuel, but it’s not.

Society industrializes this. Once we’ve established that not-X is shameful we have a permanent threat that leads to self-policing behavior. We enforce it on ourselves and those we care about.

If you didn’t care about blame or credit, what would you ship? What would you teach, invent or contribute?

The answer tells you what you’re withholding — and from whom.

Disappearing into apparent safety isn’t safe. It’s an empty and selfish way to make yourself small.