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Sunday, 2 February 2025

To be in charge

Every system, every bureaucracy and every organization creates boundaries.

Sooner or later, we say, “I’d love to fix this, but I’m not in charge of that.”

Perhaps, though, we’ve been conditioned to say this even when it’s not true. Because being in charge means being responsible, and we may have learned that being on the hook is uncomfortable.

And so, sooner or later, no one is in charge.

ADP does payroll for millions of people. Pretty much all they do is create forms and have people fill them out. The forms they use are from 1991. They’re digitally unfriendly and poorly designed. Someone, somewhere at ADP is probably in charge of this. But they’re still the way they are. Because it’s challenging to call enough meetings and take enough apparent risk to actually fix them.

My bank uses a lot of security theatre in the way they engage with people online. Needless hoops, or obvious holes in their systems. Again, my guess is that someone is probably in charge here, but they’re not acting as if they are.

But it’s not just giant organizations. It’s the little pocket park down the street from you that no one takes the time to clean, or the missing stop sign that no one agitated to have replaced…

The good news is that we have the option to be responsible for far more than we imagine.

PS in honor of Groundhog’s Day, two new secret recipes for your traditional feast.

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Saturday, 1 February 2025

Seth's Blog : "Can't complain" (but it might be worth considering)

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“Can’t complain” (but it might be worth considering)

Complaining is a cultural phenomenon, but it’s particularly prevalent in societies with a consumer culture (the customer is always right) and those where comfort is coming to be expected.

Given all the complaining we do (about the weather, leadership, products, service and various ailments), it’s worth taking a moment to think about why we complain.

The obvious one might not be the main one.

The obvious reason to complain is to make a change happen.

If that’s the goal, though, we ought to focus those complaints where they’ll do the most good, and be prepared to do the work to have an impact. Organize the others, take consistent and persistent action, and market the complaint in a format and with a focus that will lead to action.

Most of the time, though, I’m not sure that’s what we’re really after.

Here are some others:

to let off steam
to signal group affiliation
to create hope that things might get better
to increase one’s status by selfishly demanding more
to gain affiliation by complaining on behalf of someone else
to gain status by demanding more for others who can’t speak up
to validate our feelings by seeking acknowledgment from others that their grievance is legitimate
to preemptively lower expectations or manage blame
to conceal our fear or embarrassment
to avoid responsibility by pointing to someone else
to establish dominance or control in a situation
to bond with others through shared experiences of dissatisfaction

Not on the list, because it belies almost all of these: “Whining in the face of imperfection often ruins what you’ve already got.”

Whining is the evil cousin of complaining. Whining purports to exist to make things better, but it never does.

James Murphy of LCD Soundsystem said, “The best way to complain is to make things.”

And perhaps we can extend that to: “The best way to complain is to make things better.”